Wrap up in NSW and ACT

There was only one week left for the Path in 2022 when I returned from my epic road trip in Victoria. We decided to make the most of our family time together. First stop: Symbio Wildlife Park where my wildlife cup ran over! We saw a frisky Tasmanian Devil, resting koalas, hungry kangaroos, sleeping crocodiles, some caged and some free birds, an echidna in an enclosure this time, a pecking emu, two dingoes who reminded me of my dog Arya, and many lizards.

I abbreviated my third and final trip to Canberra to one day of activities, to maximise my time with Jon, Angela and Evie who were by then quite settled into their townhouse apartment and lifestyle. However there weren’t any trains running that weekend, which meant I spent an extra night in the Hurstville church’s guest house, Baringa, which I have known since the original owner’s widow lived there when I was a young child. Before Angela’s sister Carolyn gave me a lift to Baringa, she and their parents Owen and Margaret Heldon came over for a farewell lunch and visit in a nearby playground.

I had two more ministry events left. The NCIA Virtual Retreat began, for which I had submitted a proposal to repeat my “Feminine Swedenborgian Spirituality” talk. My offer wasn’t taken up, so the sessions were all given by the male members of the NCIA clergy. In the end I only attended one session, which was amazing! Check out the Hurstville New Church YouTube channel’s “Live” video about aliens. In Canberra, I lead worship with the church group before a farewell lunch, and finished up our “Journey” spiritual growth program in the afternoon. My friend Jen from Gosford (see “Travel in NSW and SA”) joined us on Zoom for both. Before heading back I caught up with my cousin Jeff Brock’s widow Michelle and her partner Ken. Michelle been saving kangaroos during bushfires last time I saw her, in 2020. She gave me Jeff’s Academy of the New Church yearbook from 1964. Surreal to be seeing high school photos of older people I know in Bryn Athyn, while sitting in Canberra, in a very different context.

Another surreal occurrence was seeing Lake George when driving to and from Canberra all three times. Surreal because every time previously in my life that I’ve been along the Federal Highway, “Lake George” was just a flat grassy plain with no water in sight. But with the rainfall and flooding, Lake George had finally appeared and seemed to want to stay awhile.

Before returning to Woonona, where Jon and Angela now live with a view of the beach from their apartment, I farewelled the ever hospitable Murray and Lori Heldon over breakfast at their lovely home. With all these farewell meals, it was beginning to sink in that I was really going to be leaving, and Jon’s family wouldn’t be coming with me. But my path in 2022/2023 ended with us filling our final two days with a few adventures! First, south to North Woolongong, where Jon has joined an early morning breathwork group. We visited the two lighthouses, from 1870s and 1930s, saw the rockpool area where Jon’s group meets, looked at the boats in the historic Woolongong Harbour, and of course played in a park (AKA playground) on the lovely esplanade along the beach.

For my last day, we headed north for breakfast at Sydneys’ first communal motorbike workshop and restaurant combo for city dwellers. Angela’s cousin-in-law is one of the owners of The Rising Sun Workshop, where the ramen menu is outstanding. From there we took one of the famous Sydney Harbour ferries, to the Taronga Park Zoo wharf. Evie was enthralled by her first ever ferry ride on the dazzling Sydney Harbour. We somehow walked past the world-renowned zoo, and instead took the Bradleys Head Walk. Growing up, my family had come several times to Bradleys Head on Sydney Harbour for swimming and picnics, and I’d just been there for New Years Eve. Very different to be there again without the crowds, and in daylight! We swam at gentle Athol Beach, marvelled at the views of the harbour and the wildlife around us, and then swam and climbed on the rocks at Bradleys Head. Then off to the historic “Rocks” district of Sydney for an early dinner (we debated linner? dunch?), and then home in time for me to pack for my long flights to the USA the next day.

Big hugs, group family hug and tears as I somehow said goodbye to my dear family at the airport. I knew they’re in the loving care of the Divine, and that they were now settled in their new life, and I would be seeing them again in six months. The separation isn’t easy, but it guarantees more Walking the Path in the future! As always, I had to confront the reality in my life of having two homelands, Australia and the USA, as the familiar beaches and towns of Botany Bay and the Australian coastline disappeared under the aeroplane’s wings. Thanks for Walking the Path with Ros in 2022/2023, and look for the next bend in the path in 2024.

Road Trip in VIC

The adventure got real when I left Adelaide and headed off to Victoria on a road trip in a hire car! I accepted my GPS’s offer of the fastest route to Majorca, a small town in the middle of the state, where I was to spend the evening and next morning with my friends Barry and Edith Rabone. In infamous GPS tradition, it took me through the back roads for many hours, including a long stretch on a narrow track just wide enough for the wheels of my car. When oncoming traffic approached, which happened occasionally, we both had to go almost off-road into the red soil to pass each other. Luckily I had enough fuel to just make it to a country town to fill up the tank! Once I made it to the Rabones’ place, we had a great time catching up and discussing some developments in our faith community and my ministry. The next day Edith and I took their vintage 1968 (?) Mini Minor to a nearby town to meet Suzanne for brunch and more joyful post-pandemic catching up.

The drive up to Harrietville in the Victorian Alps/High Country was stunning, with alpine forests, mountain roads, European cafes and shops along the way, and ski slopes waiting for winter snow. In recent years, I’ve tried to go somewhere I’ve never been before in Australia as I follow my ministry and travel path. Growing up in Australia, I’d somehow never heard of the Victorian Alps. That’s where Lynelle, my school friend whom I hadn’t seen since 1974, and her retired minister husband are raising her granddaughter, who is delightful. While I was there we swam in a cold mountain stream near their house, and took a night walk around the town, where I found out about Bush Kindy (similar to Forest School in the US,) heard a local indigenous man playing didgeridoo accompanied by guitar and drums outside a pub, and learned about the mid 1800s gold rush origins of the town. Sleeping in the cool mountain air after a hot day was incredibly refreshing. The next day we bought breakfast from a Swiss-owned cafe, and took it to a beautiful lake, formerly a site for dredging gold. Locals gather for picnics, fishing, swimming and hiking. We had to stop as we drove back for a herd of kangaroo who wanted to cross the road right in front of us. I’d been lamenting I hadn’t seen any Aussie wildlife so far this trip, but my luck was changing!

The driving adventure continued when Lynelle and John recommended I take the Great Alpine Road for an hour to the Mt Kosciusko Lookout. They said it was a bit of a windy road – they weren’t lying! The locals drove fast and confidently around the twisting mountainside curves, with their spectacular, terrifying dropoffs only inches from the road (probably more like metres in reality!) But tourists like me were driving slowly, and in my case praying the whole way, too nervous to really enjoy the beautiful mountain views.

More than an hour later, I made it to the Lookout, which was worth it in the end. Mt Kosciusko is the highest mountain in Australia, though actually dwarfed by the highest mountains in other countries. An hour-ish later, when I had almost finished my descent, my GPS announced the road was closed ahead and it was time to make a U-turn and drive back over the mountains! Considering all the recent rain and flooding, it seemed plausible. However, I firmly informed my GPS that I was definitely not going back over the Great Alpine Road! I continued on, and found that the closure was just roadwork that had closed off one lane.

After my Alpine adventure, I continued on to Melbourne, the capital of Victoria and Australia’s most culturally diverse city. Most of my Dad’s closest relatives live in Melbourne, having relocated from the coastal town of Portland. My Mum’s parents both originally came from Melbourne, so in a sense it is my city of origin, although I grew up in Sydney, which feels more like home.

During my time in Melbourne, I was able to have an afternoon BBQ with my rellies, meet up with some Swedenborgian/New Church friends, go to the opening evening session at the Australian Open AKA “go the tennis” as the locals say (another bucket list item!) and attend a church service at the new premises of the Swedenborg Community Victoria (formerly the Melbourne New Church.) The church building was sold in 2018 and after a short nomadic period, the community has bought a commercial unit with very adaptable spaces for their purposes: a good model I believe for congregations for whom a church building is no longer suitable.

Although my road trip through Victoria was mostly about travel and catching up with friends, I did have two wonderful conversations with colleagues in ministry. Rev. David Moffat is the Spiritual Leader for the Swedenborg Community Victoria, as well as the President of the New Church in Australia – an association of all the church communities. We talked about diminishing congregation sizes around Australia and the world, and placed that within the context of Swedenborg’s vision of “old” church-based practices being replaced by “new” spiritual practices and ways to relate to the Divine. In that context, David and I are both trying out new ways to reach people online: he’s developing the Swedenborg Community Victoria and I’m working with “Deborah’s Tree.” Right before I left Victoria to fly back to Sydney, I went for a short bushwalk with Rev. Martin Pennington and then talked over coffee. We shared our thinking and viewpoints on some aspects of Swedenborgian theology, but weren’t able to resolve all the questions and debates in our faith community! He also encouraged me to continue to offer support to a woman in Pennsylvania who was recently ordained online into a non-traditional ministry (hospital chaplaincy) in the NCIA, as I’m the closest thing to a NCIA ministry colleague for her. During our walk, Martin and I saw an echidna, an ant-eating mammal, which neither of us had ever seen in the wild. I also got to finally see and hear my favourite Aussie bird, the Kookaburra. During my path in 2022/2023 I had heard them cackling in many places, but hadn’t seen one. I felt complete in terms of connecting with Australia’s wonderful animals in the bush: kangaroo, echidna, and kookaburras.

Travel in NSW and SA

Right before New Years, I took a picturesque train trip to Gosford and Tumbi Umbi, just north of Sydney in NSW to visit friends. Jen is a friend from high school and is a recent reader of Swedenborg, although she has been aware of the Swedenborgian/New Church since we were pre-teens. Mike and Kerry Lockhart are friends from my teen years in the Hurstville New Church, now retired near the beach. Ask me how Jen and Mike previously met if you want to hear an entertaining story!

Jen and I got caught up on about a decade of life, and chatted about my ministry and how Swedenborgian theology has helped me. After spending a relaxing day with Mike and Kerry, including an evening beach walk which Kerry had never done, Kerry and I had breakfast at a beach cafe and surveyed morning activity on Tumbi Umbi beach. From there it was a train trip back to Sydney to meet my friend Cliff for New Year’s Eve fireworks on Sydney Harbour (see the “Joy in NSW” post.)

After connecting with dear friends in the Roseville (Sydney) congregation on New Years Day, my next stop was Adelaide, South Australia. My maternal grandfather Rev. C. D. Brock was the minister for the Adelaide Christian New Church (current name) for 23 years. Seeing his photo and name at the church when I stay there connects me to my faith and ministry roots in Australia. My vision for ministry in the Swedenborgian Church of North America included returning to Australia to serve as needed in the New Church in Australia, grounded in my roots there.

During my grandfather’s ministry in Adelaide, Helen Keller reportedly paid a visit to the congregation in 1948 when she visited Adelaide. She gifted them with this autographed photo, with the inscription “God is Light.” This year, the congregation was not meeting in January, but we did get together for morning tea at the home of the Leader June Johnson. She has asked me to send written and video sermons to use in worship services.

It was so good to see my brother Stephen and sister-in-law Soula in Adelaide, after three years of pandemic! A highlight for me was seeing “The Mousetrap” with them, the longest running show in the world, on its world tour. Also faves for me while in Adelaide this time: watching birds and relishing gum trees in the Oaklands Estate Reserve, catching up with friends and church members over coffee or on the phone, beach time, and finding a monument to a Women’s Suffrage leader in South Australia.

South Australia, like many parts of Australia, has been affected recently by La Nina conditions, which has resulted in near-record rainfall and flooding. During drought times, the Murray River in SA can get down to a trickle. Not now! On my way to visit Brock rellies in Tintinara, SA (AKA Tinty) I stopped at a cafe that I’ve often frequented, on the Murray. This is the highest I’ve ever seen the river. On the way back I saw trees under water in the town of Murray Bridge, with water lapping at homes and sheds on the waterfront.

On the way back from Tinty to Adelaide, I stopped at “Old Tailem Town, ” a recreated pioneer town that I had passed many times and promised myself I would see “some day.” My parents and brother had recommended it years ago. Pictured below are some of the highlights for me: the interior of a small house that I told my kids was a “pioneer granny flat” (since I now live in one!), a farmhouse that is similar to the one my Dad lived in as a child, a one-room school like the one he attended, a hotel that probably is like the ones my paternal grandfather worked with as a leasing agent before he became a farmer during the Great Depression, and a row of shops typical of Australian country towns in earlier days. Not long after that I crossed the “old bridge” in Murray Bridge and again was amazed at seeing a flooded Murray River.

Ministry in ACT and NSW

As in previous years, my ministry path has taken me to the Swedenborgian/New Church group in Canberra, in the Australian Capital Territory (ACT.) Canberra, being the capital city of Australia, is the seat of the Federal Government, with the two houses of Parliament, and the High Court. Since 2008, when Prime Minister Rudd made an official apology to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples, Parliament opens daily with an Acknowledgement of Country as well as the Lord’s prayer, which has been traditionally been said since Parliament was formed in 1901. Christianity is not a state religion in Australia, but was the predominant religion at the time. Whenever there have been attempts to discontinue daily prayer, the legislators keep it as part of the Australian Parliamentary tradition.

Acknowledgement of Country is now a cultural norm in Australia as a way to open meetings, gatherings and events. I like the spirit of respect for all indigenous people that this practice encompasses. When the name is known of the people on whose land the gathering is taking place, a typical Acknowledgement of Country might be “‘I begin today by acknowledging the <name of people, e.g. Ngunnawal)> people, Traditional Custodians of the land on which we gather today, and pay my respects to their Elders past and present. I extend that respect to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples here today.’

The Canberra group has been meeting in the lay leader’s home, in the large screened sun-room at the back of the house, for several years now since their minister moved to Melbourne. During my weekend visits in November and December we covered, in by now the usual pandemic-inspired hybrid style, three of four sessions in the “Seeing Providence” program that had been developed in the Swedenborgian/New Church in Bryn Athyn, PA, USA. We also worshiped together, including a lovely Christmas service in which we shared our favourite readings and carols. We were blessed by some very good singers in the group! I stayed in the home of one of one of the congregants, and also took some time to visit some of the tourist highlights in Canberra.

Early in December, there was a hybrid Women’s Weekend for Swedenborgian/New Church women in Australia and New Zealand. With my ministry outreach to women in various ways over the years, I felt right at home with the purposes of the retreat. This was the eighth retreat I believe for this wonderful group of women. My contribution was a presentation on “Feminine Swedenborgian Spirituality.”

During the retreat we attended sessions, put together birthing kits for women in poverty, walked the tracks in the bush around the Conference centre, played games, and enjoyed sharing some spiritually-focused time together. At the conclusion of the Women’s Weekend I enjoyed a ride back to Sydney in Jenn’s bright yellow BMW convertible! Since my focus for this part of my path was really on supporting Jon, Angela and Evie, this was the extent of my ministry activities until my road trip, which started just before New Years Eve, when they went away with friends for the holiday weekend.

Joy in NSW

While in the process of helping Jon, Angela and Evie settle in physically and emotionally to their home in Australia, I made sure to have fun and to treasure the joy of being with them in NSW. Every day that I was not off doing some aspect of my ministry, I spent part of the day having an adventure with Evie, while Jon and Angela attended to the business of setting up a new life. Beach adventures, rock pool explorations, playground fun, swimming, playing with dolls, dancing.

While Jon and Angela were busy lodging his complicated application for a permanent resident visa, buying a car when decent used cars were hard to find, and finding a more permanent place to rent in a competitive market, we found plenty of ways to enjoy ourselves. Angela has several school friends who live nearby on the South Coast.

Walking on the beach, especially at that liminal space at the edge of the water as the waves meet the sand, is probably my favourite way to access joy and at the same time appreciate my grounded place in this amazing universe. As Rumi advises, “Listen to the Ocean.” I walked many miles/kilometres along the stretches of beaches north and south of Bulli, any time of day (and swam in the surf as well.)

And of course there were various fun celebrations in December! My birthday, Christmas, and New Year’s Eve with fireworks on Sydney Harbour (another bucket list item!)

“At home” in New South Wales

As soon as the Coronavirus pandemic had settled down enough to allow international travel, I booked my tickets. On with my ministry and travel paths in Australia! Whereas in the past my focus was re-connecting with my church, family and school communities, this time a significant focus for me has been supporting my son Jon, his wife Angela and their daughter Evie as they move permanently to Australia.

Usually when in Sydney I’ve stayed in Baringa (pictured left) , the guest house/social centre/office of the Swedenborgian/New Church in Hurstville, NSW, and travelled an hour by train to help out in the other NCIA (New Church in Australia) congregation in Roseville, NSW. This time being in Bulli, I was an hour from Hurstville and two hours from Roseville.

What with wanting to help Jon and Angela and Evie make their geographic and emotional transition to living in Australia, the distance and time to travel to the church centres, and contracting Covid within a few days of arriving, I spent much less time than in previous ministry trips actually helping out in the churches in Sydney. I was able to contribute to an Open Discussion at the Swedenborg Centre, an outreach of the Roseville church, as well as participate in a Bible study (below.) For the Hurstville church, whose piano player has now retired after many years of service, I returned to my former music ministry to record 18 hymns and songs on piano for them to use during Christmas and regular worship services.

Connecting with friends from my faith and school communities in the Sydney area is always a blessing! The people and places from my early years have deep meaning, still providing healing for the “third culture kid” part of me (google it!) Walked the Como bridge with Murray and Lori Heldon, went to Sydney Harbour with Cliff Adamou, had lunch with school friends (no photo 🙁 ), saw a play with Lori and Jenn Beiswenger

Arriving as I did in mid November, it was Christmas time in summer in Australia! Seemed normal to me growing up in Sydney, but it took some re-adjusting for me after decades of winter Christmases. We entirely missed Thanksgiving, which isn’t celebrated in Australia anyway, except as a religious Harvest Thanksgiving at the end of summer. Jon had bought some turkey for the occasion, but he and I had Covid that week, and somehow in a summer setting I didn’t really miss it. On Christmas day I was able to check off a bucket list item: go to the beach on Christmas! We saw many families in their “Christmas tents” on the beach, complete with lights and decorations.

The Path in 2020

Welcome back to “Walking the Path with Ros”! In 2020, as the global pandemic was starting to rear its head in China, I was in Australia for 2 months and got back to the USA a week before borders were closed to international travel. In this post I’m summarising that part of my ministry and travel path, as I didn’t manage to do so as it unfolded! I had been (finally) ordained as a minister in the Swedenborgian Church of North America on 1 July 2019, in Valparaiso, Indiana, during the annual Convention of the denomination. Many family members were able to be present, which was an incredible blessing. In Australia in 2020, I was a visiting minister from the SCNA, fully recognised as clergy even though women’s ordination in the New Church in Australia is limited to non-traditional ministry.

The first stop in 2020 was Adelaide, South Australia to visit with family and friends, and an obligatory beach day! Pictured are my cousin’s daughter with her partner and their daughter (and first son in utero) at the most pristine and paradisal “off the beaten track” beach I have ever been on, near their home in Port Lincoln, SA

The next stop was the annual New Church Family Retreat, which has only been held virtually since then because of Covid. This time it was held in Adelaide, South Australia at the Nunayara Conference Centre. I gave a very participatory workshop about “Spiritual First Aid,” held a children’s session in which they wrote and illustrated a psalm in Biblical style, and narrated a play reading of “The Great Change” by Walter Horner. My parents had given me a copy of the play many years before, written by their dear clergy friend, which had never been performed. Two of his descendants were in the audience and one was in the cast. Rev. Jane Siebert, the President of the SCNA, who had ordained me, attended the Retreat – the first time I know of that a SCNA minister had attended.

There had been devastating bushfires all around Australia that summer, including near Adelaide. We could smell the smoke at times. Several people were re-routed due to active fires, as they drove interstate for the retreat. On outing day I found a baby koala who had bravely ventured to a duck pond, presumably because s/he couldn’t get moisture from gum leaves

After the Retreat, my path lead me back to Adelaide and Tintinara, SA to visit family and help out in the Adelaide New Church.

The final stops on the path for 2020 were Sydney and Canberra. There are two Swedenborgian/New Church congregations in Sydney, one on the “south shore” of Sydney Harbour, and one on the “north shore,” though neither are actually anywhere near the waters of the harbour. In Hurstville I gave a presentation/class, and in Roseville I helped out in the Swedenborg Centre.

The ministers in those congregations sometimes visit the Swedenborgian/New Church group in Canberra, 3 hours drive southwest of Sydney, which does not have a minister. One weekend I drove down to minister to the group, and visit relatives. Michelle (in the photos) had been feeding and offering water to kangaroos who had been displaced by the bushfires nearby.

An important part of the path for me is re-connecting with my Aussie communities: family, church and school. So as usual, I visited various friends, went to favourite places, and relished the wonderful Aussie birds and other wildlife.

But I also met new friends, like a woman who had been listening to “Off the Left Eye” and didn’t know there were church organisations. And went to new places, like the hotel where we met her in the Blue Mountains, and this beach at Watson’s Bay that was new to me.

As my path in 2020 came to an end, with my joy tank filled, I returned to the United States, just in time to hunker down as the Coronavirus pandemic began.